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On Marriage and Exes
Just got off the phone with Linda (my first girlfriend -- read "My Past" for more info)... The phone didnt get answered quickly and when it was, it was there was this loud music in the background.
She was all laughing and recognised my voice instanlty. We said out hello... well what could say over the music and i asked what she was up to...
She was getting engaged. For those that are wondering engagments in Ghana require a full blown party and i've seems some precede a wedding my a few days. Somehow in her case, the guy isnt even around. He's in the US, but that dont stop a party does it?
Yup so my first girlfriend is almost there. Makes me feel so old! Lol.. i know she's amlost 2 years older than me but still it's scaring me now.
I've been saying for almost a year now how it freaks me out that a lot of my friends are getting married or are planing it. And before you say "oh the girls always get married earlier" ... i've got about 4 male friends that are getting married soonish or are already.
I dont think i'm ready to be going out clubbing with say... "Max and his wife" .... it sounds.. sorta odd!
When i went to Ghana for instance i hung out with Linda for a coupla days. Well she was ouside the country initially so i didnt get to see her till i was almost coming back...
But i s'pose the next time i see her she'll be someone's wife so i'll have to steer clear of her.
Hmm... I dunno what Abe will say about this, but I'm currently not very comfortable with the idea of being married and having a wife.. y'know the works. Or maybe it's because my friends are all 2 years or older than me.
I s'pose in 2 years I'll also hear the call of the..... whatever it is.
